Gary Givental
3 min readAug 12, 2023

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Meditation — it’s not what you think

In a world that often feels like it’s spinning at a million miles per hour, our lives have become an endless race against time. Meetings, deadlines, social commitments, and personal goals often consume our days, leaving us with little to no room to breathe. I confess, I am no stranger to this relentless pace, getting too absorbed in the day-to-day tasks and challenges. It often feels like I’m trapped in a whirlpool of stressful thoughts, with escape seeming nearly impossible.

A Simple Walk as a Meditation

After one particularly stressful day, I knew I needed a “time out”. I decided to go for a walk, and realized, even a simple walk can serve as a necessary mental break. It doesn’t have to be a hike in the wilderness or a walk on the beach; even a stroll around your neighborhood can provide the pause you need. The rhythmic sound of footsteps, the gentle rustle of leaves, and the fresh air all contribute to this meditative experience.

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The Present Moment as Meditation

But this idea goes even beyond walking. Engaging in any activity with a single focus on the present moment can become a form of meditation. Whether it’s painting, cooking, or even cleaning, immersing yourself entirely in the task at hand can be a powerful way to quiet the mind and foster a sense of peace.

Martial Arts: My Personal Time Out

Another activity that, for me personally, has served as an incredible “timeout” is martial arts practice. Unlike any regular workout, it demands an unwavering and singular focus. Every movement, every stance requires precision. When I’m practicing, the daily stressors fade into the background, replaced by the rhythm of my breath and the precise execution of techniques. Paired with the physical exertion, martial arts offer a two-fold escape: the mind finds its zen, and the body feels invigorated.

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Importance of Taking a Time Out

This deliberate act of taking a time out is more than a luxury; it’s a necessity. In a world filled with constant noise and distractions, pausing to engage with the present moment is essential for our mental well-being. These timeouts can clear the fog and provide us with fresh insights and perspectives that we might not have seen otherwise.

Perspective Through Time Outs

In fact, I’ve found that these timeouts are incredibly useful to give me perspective. They’ve allowed me to step back, reflect on my actions, and make better decisions. Whether it’s a quick break or a longer retreat, these moments of introspection have become a vital part of my routine.

Conclusion

Life’s whirlwind pace can often make us lose sight of the bigger picture. We become entangled in our thoughts and routines, forgetting that a simple escape is within our reach. Through practices like walking or immersing ourselves in an activity, we can create pockets of meditation that provide clarity and perspective. We all can, and should, do better at stepping out of our own life even for a few minutes — especially when all it takes is a walk. These timeouts are not just a means to unwind; they are a pathway to a more mindful and fulfilling life.

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Gary Givental

Software Engineer, AI geek, and longtime yogi and martial artist.